There is nothing wrong with zeal but when zeal has no knowledge, understand and the right approach, you will hurt the same people you want to help. Its okay that you really want to help people but you must understand there are principles in the God’s kingdom. When it comes to love and relationship, a lot of friends and people around us think they know better than we do. Some times, they are right and some times they are wrong. In any ways, you must learn the art of respecting people privacy. Our Lord Jesus showed us this example by the way He responded to every one that came to him for Help. Jesus would ask them “what do you want me to do for you?” I use to think Jesus was being wicked until the Holy Spirit began to teach me the art of respecting people’s privacy.  WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO FOR YOU? This is a question that holds a strong wisdom we need to embrace in this generation. Irrespective of how any body is suffering in any abusive relationship, don’t be their Saviour.

Eccl 3:1 Hmmm... when time becomes your enemy, who can save you? The bible says there is time for every thing... Even at this scripture, many believers in the body of Christ are missing it. Prayer is not every thing. there is time to pray and there is time to recognise the appearance of what you've being praying for.  The most simple yet dangerous thing that can happen to any one is "inability" to recognise the time of God's visitation for your life.  The parable of the five foolish virgin and the five wise virgin is so profound. These were virgins. They were perfect, committed, loyal but the bible called the remaining five virgins "foolish" because they missed their time of visitation.  Don't postpone for tomorrow what you are meant to do today. Time can't be restored when it's wasted. YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE ACCOUNT TO GOD FOR HOW YOU WASTE YOUR TIME AND FOR HOW YOU INVEST YOUR TIME. Time is a currency of life God gives

Philippians 2:14-16 King James Version (KJV) 14 Do all things without murmurings and disputings: 15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world; 16 Holding forth the word of life; that I may rejoice in the day of Christ, that I have not run in vain, neither laboured in vain.  As a kingdom son and daughter of God, you must live a life that is free from murmuring. Either it's in your heart or you whisper to your self alone or you speak out - God is not interested in people that murmurs. Whoever you are, murmuring is not Part of God's nature. If there is some thing you are not comfortable with some one or your church, ask the Lord to give you the wisdom to approach or deal with it. You can also pray about it for God's will to be done. Murmuring about anybody, about any church or about any situation IS AN INSULT TO GOD ALMIGHTY. It's an act